Adopt a Granny or a Grampa

Are there elderly parishoners in your church that you know little about?

I'm sending out a message to single adults, couples, families, empty nesters..... why not invite one of the pillars of your congregation out to 'coffee' or breakfast after church some Sunday? This comes to mind because two seasons of the year the elderly singles in congregations (especially those whose children live quite a distance away) are often left to their own devices and become a bit blue: winter and summer.

Winter because it's hard to get around and even those seniors who still drive are very anxious about coming out after dark or in inclement weather. Bring some sunshine to them by offering a ride to or from church and maybe throw in an activity after church.

Summertime is often too hot and the phone doesn't ring because people are on vacation. Well, you still have to shop and probably they do too. Go shopping and grab a snack.

Old age isn't for sissies, it's true. It's easier to face when you have a bright spot here or there to look forward to.

Also, if THEY invite YOU to come for lunch, by all means, go. See their apartments, let them tell you the stories behind the sepia colored pictures on their walls. Exchange phone numbers. Get the kids involved by helping to carry groceries or return bottles or take out the recycling.

Some of us are blessed with families. Others of us make our families. When family members die or leave, there is a gap. Risk - if you dare - falling into the GAP. It is in giving that we receive......