Elastic Cement

The Deacon's conference was very interesting.... no, I don't mean the type of comment one might make when asked their opinion of the mouthful of chicken fried ants they are trying to swallow.

The topic was immigration issues, the ways and rights of migrant workers/illegal immigrants..... and the rights of small business to get by in the would of megamarkets (who enlist illegal workers with few benefits if any).

We live in a world of contractions and viewpoints diametrically opposed..... and everyone, more or less, is asked their opinion or viewpoint. Even the most neutral among us is disposed one way or another.

But what can we DO about it?

My first response is to take the time - and patience - to listen to the other side without prior judgment..... and that, my friends, often proves difficult. Staying in the middle has its advantages, especially when it comes to moderation or negotiation.

My prayer life tells me it's more about being than doing. We may be called to be peacemakers and children of God - we are called to be elastic cement. Strong enough to maintain a conviction, to remain firm in the belief what much progress can be made through dialogue .... pliable enough to be inspired by the Spirit to learn and make steps toward a constructing bridges that will stand the test of time and the squalls of anger, bitterness, even violence.

Don't misunderstand me here. Radical moderation does not preclude having an opinion or point of view - radical tolerance encourages a healthy atmosphere.

May we have the wisdom to listen to each other, the wisdom to expand our horizons and the grace of God to find a common way, regardless of the dilemma we face.