The Lord God Made Them All......
My beautiful 3.5 year-old dog, Emily Louise (or Emmy-Lou, or Lou-Lou) was a rescue from a shelter in Georgia. She was transported via relay from one volunteer driver to another all the way to Greene County, New York, some 70 mi north of me. Adopting her has been one of my very best decisions EVER!
I offer these prayers to you, hoping that they may address your needs - or those of a friend. They are also being made available to Ramapo-Bergen Animal Rescue, Inc. a shelter in Oakland, NJ which I have supported in one way or another for over six years.
I want to put in a plug here for all shelters... support them in the ways you can, just as you do with your parish community, with time, treasure and talent. There are always pets to walk, groom, play with, supplies to be purchased, vet services which cost the shelter to provide. And, when possible, consider adopting from a shelter. Give your home to an existing pet that needs a chance in life to show the love they have within.
And, as with all entries on MOLC and on the Farm in general, we welcome your comments and contributions. May God bless our every endeavor.
Before Adopting or Purchasing a Pet
Holy God, giver of life, we ask your assistance in chosing a pet that we can care for and live with. Help us to understand the responsibilities you have given us as caretakers of this earth and particularly the responsibilities involved in bringing this pet into our home and making it our own. We ask your guidance and gift of discerning hearts. Amen.
Before Adopting a New Pet after the death of a beloved ______
Spirit of the Living God, you renew all things and call us to love again and again. Be with us as we decide to adopt (purchase) a new ________. We will always remember our beloved (name); no other animal could possibly ever take (his/her) place. We choose now to welcome a new member into our home - not as a replacement - but as an addition. Having learned from (name) just how much love we had to share, open our hearts to love again. Help us to remember how fortunate we are to welcome another one of your beloved creatures into our family. Amen.
Thanksgiving for a Pet
We thank you, loving, gracious God for surrounding us with the wonders of nature and the diversity of creation. We wish to give you thanks particularly today for the gift of (name), our new (animal). As you have entrusted us with (his/her) care, give us grateful hearts for (his/her) companionship in our journey together. All this we ask in Jesus' name. Amen.
For a pet that is ill
Dear God, we place our trust in you to ease the (sickness/pain) our our dear (animal, Name). We ask you to give skill and kindness to the vet staff who is caring for (Name). If it is your will, heal our dear friend that (his/her) body may be refreshed and our spirits lifted to spend more days together. Amen.
For a terminally ill pet
Holy and merciful God, look with compassion on (Name), a creature of your own making. We understand that (his/her) health is failing and that (he/she) will not be with us much longer. Give us the strength to make the right decision as to the time when we must let go and offer (him/her) back into your loving arms. Help us both to make that transition with grace and love, ever grateful for all the affection (he/she) gave to us unconditionally over these past (years, months, days). And in the days to come be near to us in our grief and dry the tears from our eyes. Amen.
For the departed pet
Loving God, you can feel the loss of even one sparrow. Be with us now as we say goodbye to our beloved (Name). Be with (him/her) as (he/she) leaves this life behind to find a new life with You. Welcome (him/her) into your arms and your realm of Paradise where (he/she) will bask in the light of your Love. We remember (Name) and give thanks to you for allowing (him/her) to enrich our lives in so many ways. Take care, Lord, of our dear (Name) until we come to see both of you again. Amen.
For those who mourn
Dear Jesus, our hearts are hurt. We miss (Name) so much and we just feel sad. Help us to remember (Name) in a very special way so that, after a while, when we remember them we can remember how happy we were when (he/she) was here and that some day we will see (him/her) again. Amen.
Spirit of the Living God, look with compassion on us who mourn the death of our sweet, dear friend (Name). No one can ever take (his/her) place and our hearts are broken. Be with us in the long dark nights, in the sad moments we have yet to face. We know we are better people for having loved this wonderful animal. Help us bear that in mind in our present loneliness. Comfort us in our loss. All this we ask in the name of Jesus Christ who with you and Creator of all things live and reign forever and ever. Amen
Copyright © 2005 K.L.Joanna Depue and Deacon J
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When it comes to a short "service" for a beloved pet, I think it best to involve all members of the family in ways they can participate. As in the case of a human being who has passed from this side of being to the greater glory of "all the Saints", make the service a celebration in the best possible sense of the word. You had - in many cases - the unquestioned love of another living thing. You experienced their "personality" as few others did. They made you laugh, cry, worry, and, in some cases, sat with you while you went through all these emotions. What a gift they gave you! Remember it, savor it, grieve its loss, remember you will know that love again when, at the end of our journey we all return to the seat of Love itself.
So.... write a little something to say, sing a favorite song, gather a favorite toy or two, draw a picture, put together some photos in a folder or on oaktag. Invite friends. Tell stories. After the interaction, have someone say one of the prayers below or make up your own. Then have a celebration meal. Afterward, put some momentos in a binder or album you might get from a dollar store. Carefully letter your pet's name on the binding. That way some of your memories are in one place and portable. This may be a good idea because people move from time to time.
If you decide to bury your beloved pet you may choose a favorite towel or blanket instead of something more formal. If you have chosen to have your pet cremated, you might scatter the ashes at a favorite "sunning" spot out of doors, or under a certain tree or in the surf at the beach. Let your heart make the decision on this one.
Bear in mind (and this is my opinion and experience) amazingly few relationships are as exquisitely intimate as the one we have with a beloved cat or dog or bird or iguana, even though it is unlikely that the two of you have ever had an exchange of words.
With a love that BIG, your emotions may be just as big. Treat yourself gently in the process, and involve God and family and friends in your adjustment period.